Tag Archive for 'positivity'

why am i writing this??

conversation with self:

exhausted?

CHECK

Brain stuffed with good books?

CHECK

Brain also stuffed with bad books, but knowing full well what they did and how to avoid it. Or maybe, also, um…good books with just a few awkward moments that can probably be avoided now that you know why they were awkward?

CHECK YEAH

Committed to two week book-fast, wherein ABSOLUTELY NO FICTION READING IS ALLOWED because you’ll be busy writing something worth reading?!!

*sigh*

check.

OKAY, now go write write write, little bird. And fly fly fly. Share your dreams with the world. Be bold. Be brave.

Or don’t. I don’t care as long as you WRITE.

-M♥lly

Where did you first feel inspired?

Happy Belated Mothers’ Day

I want to start asking the writers I interview when they first knew they were a writer (This great question is via Kari).

I started to wonder the same about myself.

When I was little, the library was one of the most magical places in the world.

I remember my mom taking me there and letting me loose in the picture book section. So many colors and images. The smell of paste and book binding. The bright colored carpet. Pages flipping through my stubby fingers.

I remember bringing the books home and looking at them with my dog on the floor next to me. I remember bringing library books to school for read-aloud-day and my classmates telling me I always brought the best stories (and sometimes the weirdest).

I remember my mom helping me pick out a big pile, bringing them home, and having each one read to me. I remember talking about the pictures. I remember one about a “drawer” drawing in a “drawer” (you know, like a dresser drawer) and my mom explained what a play on words was. I remember books about spaceships and lakes and monsters and sunflowers.

So thanks, Mom, for taking the time to take me to the library and look through the books with me. I credit my passion for art and writing to those experiences.

Where did you first get the inspiration?

original image source:http://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Library_Pengo.jpg

Peace

Writer’s excuses

So I pretty much forgot that I had an anniversary this weekend. I mean I remembered, but only after I planned out all the hours I wanted to spend working on my revisions.

Needless to say, I did not get as much done as I wanted to.

That made me think of how to be a writer you need to be really strict and organized with yourself if you want to get anything done. BUT most writers are naturally a little more, um, unscheduled.

We can be chaotic if we let ourselves. I mean we hear voices in our heads (of our characters, of course) and we write on napkins in the middle of restaurants so we don’t lose amazing ideas. I love being spontaneous, but I will never achieve the level of writing and revision I want if I let my whims rule my schedule.

I am one of those people that hates wearing a watch—it feels so restricting. I don’t want to think about time. However, I went out and bought a stopwatch to help me stay on track. Have I used it? Heck no, but the idea…

Anyways, I don’t know if you have one of these, but I ran my excuses through my very scientific BS-OMeter at home, and this was what I found:

I need to revise another 20 pages, but I’ll be able to concentrate better if I go eat Chipotle first.

Okay, this is kinda bullcrap because I eat Chipotle like three times a day, so I never really neeeed it, but it is important to be fed and well rested before trying to hone your brain on your story. So why am I always up till 2am working on it???

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I’ll be able to write better if I just clean the house first.

Total BS. First of all, I am a horrible cleaner, and cleaning my house would take me all day because I get sidetracked too much. That’s what amazing husbands are for (shhhh). Also, once I get into my story, I’m in the zone, I don’t really see or hear the room around me. The important thing is to get your butt in that chair and get into that zone.

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I can juggle family time and writing time AT ONCE. Go ahead, sweetie-face, pop in that movie. I’ll just sit on the couch, watch the movie, and somehow still type coherently.


ding ding ding. Absolute BS. You will not be able to concentrate. I tried this weekend and I started typing what the characters in the movie were saying, or I’d completely space out, and then the movie would play this really dramatic music and I’d be like, “Wha’d I miss? Wha’d I miss????” booo.

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Anyways, feel free to share your excuses that keep you from writing. Along with ways you combat them.
My best advice is just to sit there and type. It’s getting into that chair that’s hard for me.

Peace

Regarding Book Reviews

So I’ve been reading a ridiculous amount in the past few weeks, and I’m anxious to share my thoughts.

Before I composed my opinions, I emailed Mary Kole of Kidlit.com  and asked if she thought posting book reviews on my blog could hurt my chances of getting published.  I asked because I’d read a couple of books recently that flat out disappointed me—grammatically, plot-wise, character-wise—and I didn’t want my honest opinion stepping on the same toes that I might need to kiss up to in the near future.

Mary took my concern seriously and responded with a very thorough answer.  Thank God for people like her in the publishing industry.

In summary, she said to stay positive.  She also said that every author is a bundle of nerves, and they and their agents and editors are most likely watching the internet for any review that mentions their book, so it is quite possible that I would hurt feelings.  She made it clear that it is one thing to analyze and another to write a scathing review.

I appreciate her time and honest insight.  I truly believe my journey as an author would still be in the “wishful thinking” stage if it weren’t for kidlit.com

Needless to say, reviews are coming soon, I’m just working on making them as positive and helpful as possible!